Jimmy Carr reverses Katherine Ryan's ideal-partner formula
A romance question on 8 Out of 10 Cats becomes a very particular wish list, with Mel supplying Carr's example.
Why this story? The video opened at a pace of 837,002 views a day, 16 times a normal first day on this channel (51,162).
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"Most women are more attracted to a geek than a tough guy. True or false?" Jimmy Carr asks. It sounds like a question with two possible answers. Katherine Ryan promptly offers a third option.
In the panel-show excerpt on Carr's official channel, Ryan borrows the familiar formula about a partner behaving differently in public and in the bedroom. Carr wants it reversed: someone who falls straight asleep but becomes eccentric out in the street. He points to Mel as his illustration.
The Short has drawn about 775,000 views before its first full day, already far beyond the channel's usual first-day audience for that format. The comments are unusually busy too, with viewers picking out Carr's impersonation of Mel and saying she'd be their choice of company.
This is a different setting from the heckler exchanges that regularly fill Carr's channel: fellow comedians, rather than audience members, get to build on the setup. The discussion turns into a knowingly unromantic argument about whether being difficult makes a partner's occasional kindness seem more impressive.
By the end, the tough-guy pose has shrunk to a domestic act of rebellion: a panelist jokes about deliberately failing to record Downton Abbey for his wife.
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What viewers say
This was such a good bit and an accurate description of Mel, and we all want a Mel to hang out with.
@custardavengerSee it on YouTubeAh I miss Micky Flanagan on panel shows.
@tremlinnSee it on YouTubeWe ALL want Mel!
@frostie84See it on YouTube
Public comments from the video's page on YouTube
- Channel
- Jimmy Carr
- Subscribers
- 2,240,000 ▲ 30,000 this week
- Channel views, last 7 days
- 19,641,922
- Channel views, pace per day
- 5,424,441 (on a normal day: 3,492,142)
- Video published
- October 18, 2026
- Video views so far
- 774,561 (less than a day online)
- Video views, pace per day
- 837,002
The numbers
The panel-show Short has already passed Carr's usual first-day views by a wide margin. A separate food-themed heckler Short is also drawing an unusually fast audience.
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